Dr. Julie Gottman and Dr. John Gottman

Fight Right:
How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection


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Dr. Julie Gottman and Dr. John Gottman are world-renowned psychologists recognized for their extensive work in relationship stability and divorce prediction. Together, they co-founded the Gottman Institute to help couples build and maintain healthy relationships through research-based approaches.

John Gottman, a Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of Washington, is celebrated for his work on relationship analysis through the observation of behavioral patterns and physiological responses in couples over time. He co-developed, with Julie, the Gottman Method, an approach to couples therapy that emphasizes emotional connection, conflict management, and creating shared meaning. Their research has led to the development of practical tools and interventions that have helped countless couples improve their relationships.

Julie Gottman is highly respected for her significant contributions to relationship therapy. Julie's work extends to training therapists, focusing on distressed couples, and authoring influential books such as 10 Principles for Doing Effective Couples Therapy. Her research and clinical practice address challenges in relationships, including trauma and substance abuse, underscoring her dedication to fostering healthy partnerships.

Together, the Gottmans have dedicated their careers to understanding what makes relationships succeed or fail. They have co-authored over 50 books, including bestsellers such as The Love Prescription and Eight Dates—Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. Winners of the 2021 Psychotherapy Networker Lifetime Achievement Award, their evidence-based approach to relationship counseling has revolutionized the field, making them pre-eminent figures in relationship psychology. Their work continues to inspire both therapists and couples worldwide to foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

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